Husbands are called in 1 Peter 3:7 to live with their wives in an understanding way — not merely to tolerate, but to truly know and serve them. In this practical and honest message, Leon Pretorius explores why wives think and feel the way they do, how relational security sits at the very centre of a wife's world, and why the pursuit of your wife does not end at the altar. Drawing on Ephesians 5 and real survey data, this sermon equips husbands to nourish and cherish their wives the way Christ loves the church — continually, attentively, and sacrificially.